If you want a kick-arse, non-traditional wedding that is fun, funny, inclusive, personal, memorable and just a rollicking good time - you’re in the right place! My favourite part of my job is getting to know who you are + what you value, to ensure your ceremony represents you absolutely perfectly. Your mates will be wondering if we’re old friends - and that’s how we like it!
So, what’s all the feminism about? I’m a card-carrying feminist (yes, they give us cards, to ward off the misogynists). It’s how I live my life, it’s what I believe in, and you bet I’m not leaving that at the door. Marriage has a chequered history (it was often about ownership - eww), and I like to think it’s my job to push the tradition of marriage + the wedding industry itself in a more progressive direction. If that means forgoing antiquated traditions (umm, yes please): great, let’s do it! Does that mean I’ll judge you for wanting your father-figure to escort you down the aisle? Absolutely not! Feminism is about choice. You should do whatever the bloody hell you want to do!
I believe in enoughness*, and making do, and I believe we should stay truly connected to our values. Sometimes we get to planning our wedding day and we throw all of that in the bin - but I don’t think we should. Your wedding day should be an accurate representation of who you are and what you care about. Don’t give anyone else a second thought - this is about the two of you, and what YOU want.
*I stole this term from my friend Jane. It’s a bloody good one!